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2020 Vision. A New Year. A New Decade.

My road to becoming an Influencer in a few months

Time for a touch of reflection to put today into perspective. Then do what I do best…move forward. Anyone who has ever met me is always shocked when they hear a nugget from my past or see what I’m capable of. Looks can be deceiving. Hopefully, this post gives people an idea of who I really am…I’m a grown-ass experienced woman who makes sh$t happen. All I can hope is that this blog post will inspire you for your 2020 vision. If I can anyone else can too.

2010-2019

At the start of this decade, I was a Director of Channel Management at an IT Cloud Computing firm when no one knew what ‘The Cloud’ was. I worked from home, but I also traveled extensively for work. This work took me away from home more than what most wives with small children would like to be. I was still living in Pinellas County, Florida (Clearwater at the time and the last city in Pinellas that we lived) and I cherished the “me time” that I had after everyone left for work and school. In 2010 a stalker (Long, long story) that has stalked me since high school, and hadn’t found me since college popped back up and started harassing my work social media profiles. I always kept my “real life” private and away from my public persona as I always did for protection against this stalker. Thankfully since I worked remotely he couldn’t tell where I lived based on my company address, which was a Data Center in the San Francisco Bay area. 2020 was also the year I created my Yelp account and wrote my first review. Yelp was the only personal social media outlet I had where everyone really knew my name. In 2011 we moved to Tampa and gave up on Pinellas County living. We became Westchase area residents, known for middle to well off families and an A+ school district. In 2012 my husband landed a new career that required him to also work from home…no more “me time” and the house that I thought we’d end up buying in the neighborhood I fell in love with became too small. We moved to a bigger house and neighborhood that I hated in what was considered the Greater Westchase/Citrus Park area, still keeping our kids in the same A+ school district. In 2013 I stopped doing the accounting for a small church I was the CFO for, so in the time that I freed up, I started an online side hustle, my distribution company. In 2014 I became a Yelp Elite as an ultimate foodie. Then in 2015, I made the hard decision to walk away from my successful IT career while I was on a girl’s trip to Vegas. My “side gig” was getting too big to be on the side and the income surpassed my salary. Everyone thought I was crazy and wasn’t sure I was making the right decision…I was a young Director who built the company’s Channel Sales Program with a damn good salary and a lot of influence in the IT service provider channel, for God’s sake! However, no one ever stops me from doing what I feel is right. The only person that can do that is me. In 2017 we decided to finally settle “permanently” in Westchase and started a house hunt. I never got over the first neighborhood we lived in, but all the houses that popped up on the MLS for that neighborhood were just too small for our needs. One weekend for sh&ts and giggles we rode into our old neighborhood and stopped to check out a For Sale By Owner open house. That house had an addition in the back which made it larger than most of the other homes in the neighborhood and we determined that it was big enough for us. We bought the home and I was back where I wanted to be. Christmas of 2018 I booked two round trip tickets for my mother and I. We would travel the entire month of June 2019 to Europe as my gift to my Mom. It was a dream of hers for as long as I could remember. I was excited to knowing I was going away on a long trip, but I wasn’t necessarily excited for Europe. It was also going to be the longest I had ever been away from my husband and children, who are now teens. In February of 2019 I got the Yelptime Achievement Award and my husband and I also got the Yelp Couple of the Year at the Yelp Tampa Bay Yelpies Award Party. So, yes, we are certified foodies! In the same month I decided I needed to do something about my insomnia that I’d been suffering from for several years at this point. An ad popped up on twitter that spoke directly to my issues. So, I got qualified for a medical marijuana card. Random, right? Oh no, this gave me the bit of energy I needed to really become more! I started getting a full night’s rest. I was  finally able to work out consistently and I dropped 12 pounds before my trip to Europe in June. In Europe, we traveled to 9 countries mostly by rental car and I lost another 12 pounds by the time we came back to the United States in July from all the walking we did. That month-long trip to Europe changed the trajectory of my life. It opened me up to immersing in cultures that I thought I’d only care to glace at as a tourist. I decided that I wanted to start a blog so I could make extensive travel (not just weekend getaways, family vacations, and girls trips) a large part of my life and somehow make a living from it. At the time I didn’t know how, but I just started taking action. So, in July of 2019, I had less than 200 followers on Instagram and I told myself that I should be able to grow my Instagram account to 10K followers in 10 months. That’s 1000 followers a month. I had no idea how hard that was because I wasn’t even using my IG account much, but I was determined. Aside from it not being easy to grow an IG account, it wasn’t an easy move for me to make, socially. Remember I’ve had a stalker since I was a teen so social media and my “real self” didn’t mix due to fear he’d find me and my family. I decided I needed to have faith and that God wouldn’t put these dreams in my head if it wasn’t what I was supposed to do. So for the first time in my life, I put my personal life out there in a public, not private way. I can’t hide who I am to the world any longer. I also learned how to be much more engaging in a personal way on social media. I was great at marketing B2B and ran social media accounts for business, but never for myself personally. I have a long way to go, but I’m learning. Somehow that faith and making moves; growing and learning Instagram organically and starting this blog (I created the website in September 2019 in one weekend), threw me into a whirlwind new venture as a digital creator on social media…dare I say, I’m now an ‘Influencer.’

2020 Vision

If someone would have told me a year ago that I’d be a blogger and a paid influencer today I would have laughed in their face. My distribution company is currently still my main source of income. I’m still a wife and mother. I also have the urge to travel for longer periods and more frequently. So, my new goals include more expansion and automation. I’m making plans and moving on them…because that’s all God needs to make a path. Happy New Year, Friends! Let’s be determined together and make sh&t happen. I’d love to hear your story and your 2020 vision. Drop me a comment and let’s engage!

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  1. Wow, girl! I am inspired 😻 I remember you sharing a bit of this with me when we met and started to take up some of your tips for social media. I can say it really works. Thanks soOoO much for sharing this! You inspired me and I can only imagine how many others you’ll inspire. 😹

    1. Vanity, you inspire me. You are an awesome lady. I’m so happy that we can help and lift each other up. I look forward to seeing more of your growth in 2020!

  2. WOW… you’ve accomplished SO much! Congrats!!! Best wishes for 2020… can’t wait to watch you make sh&t happen!

    1. Oh thank you for these awesome words of encouragement! There’s always a new chapter in life and new accomplishments to be made, right? Best wishes to you and your family this decade. You rock!

  3. It is amazing how much can change in just a decade. I personally had just about hit rock bottom in my life in 2010, and in the last 10 years I have climbed out of that (with the help of some great friends) and started to build my personal legacy, getting married and creating a nice big happy (most of the time) family. My goals for the next 10 years are simple, Using many different types of earning income, I want to be able to retire just after the end of this decade, when the last kid graduates high school, and then travel the world and experience life to the fullest with my wife! Thank you for sharing, this is very motivational!

    1. Oh my, we have the EXACT same retirement goal and it seems in the same time frame as well. My desire is to build a business that will allow me to travel freely especially after the kids are out of the house. My husband is on board with selling the house after the kids go to college and living in different countries 3-6 months at a time so we can really experience the world and immerse ourselves in different cultures.

      Thank you so much for sharing a bit of your story with me. You’re so right. We grow and change and evolve. The things we wanted 10 years ago we may not want today. Who knows what life will bring that will put us on different roads. The key is to adapt and always look forward. Learn from the past. 

      You are an inspiration to me.

      Remember that there is no failure. You win or you learn

  4. This was so inspirational!! Its spoke to me in a way you could not imagine. How much success have you had with your IG page? You are very brave to not have the stalker situation take control over your life. Do you think it is a useful tool to expand your ventures? How can one get more involved in Yelp?

    1. Karen, Thank you! I ended up with more success in a short period of time than expected on IG. 

      So I started with only 200 followers July of 2019…only friends and family. I decided to take it seriously and put a goal out to get 1K followers a month so by May 2020 I can be a 10K followers. I’m above 6K now so I’m still on track! It’s hard work because it’s a lot of engaging, but it has paid off. The biggest thing is if you are generous with like, comments and sharing others will do the same for you.

      I started this blog consistent with my IG account in September 2019 and although I’m still working on it it really has opened doors. I get invited to a lot of influencer events by local businesses and even nationally. I get a lot of free stuff sent to me so I can try it and share my experience with my followers. I also have had a few paid opportunities! I thought that wouldn’t happen until 10K, but my engagement is so good that national brands have wanted a partnership!

      My IG is @alohamelani so you can see it all there. Feel free to follow me and I’ll follow back and of course, engage! I never thought I would get into this, but it has all worked out and really becoming another stream of income and fun! It is still hard work, though.

      As far as Yelp is concerned you just need to download the App on your phone and create a profile with your real first name and initial as well as a real picture of your face (if you haven’t already). Then you just review places you’ve been to! It’s that simple. Once you have reviewed a lot of restaurants, businesses and experiences Yelp will reach out to you or someone can nominate you to become an Elite Yelper. Elite Yelpers get to go to free events showcasing local businesses. It’s so much fun and I’ve made many friends via Yelp over the years.

      If you have more questions feel free to reach out. I’m on Instagram the most so you can message me there, but you can always message me here via the contact link or email me!

      I’m so glad to inspire and help. All you need to do is figure out a goal and take the first steps toward them and everything will start rolling with persistent work. I promise!

  5. Hi, Aloha.
    Thanks for sharing your views on becoming an influencer in this year. What I could make out of your story is that if we are persistent and work with consistency then we can surely touch that success mark we always wanted to reach upon. Your story motivated me to be serious in life towards our goal. Wish you all the success.
    Warm Regards,
    Gaurav Gaur

    1. Gaurav, 

      Thank you for your kind words as they inspire me to push on! I wish you much success in all your endeavors. Never lose motivation no matter what comes your way. Remember: You don’t fail…you either win or learn!

      ~Aloha

  6. Really interesting to learn about your journey and how you became an influencer, this is has motivated me to follow my goals as well. I don’t want to be tied to that 9 to 5 for the rest of my life so my time is now going into something that will benefit in the future, a part-time income.

    Thanks for sharing,

    Josh

    1. Joshua,

      Absolutely! Today, with the Internet and apps there are so many ways to start a side hustle. It starts with your intent, goals, then steps toward those goals. The more you put in the more you will get out. 

      There is no better time than now!

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